Every adoptive family says it...and you wonder how it could be true...yet it is. Leaving the birthtown of your daughter is so bitter-sweet. I am so happy to be heading to GZ, but I'm a little sad for sweet Gracie. Our guide, Sam, has been amazing! He has been so patient with Gracie and she loves to see him everyday. Gracie is
very vocal and loves to have conversations with him. She talks to us, but obviously, it's not the same. We just don't understand what she's saying and can't give her the response she desires. Sam can.
Sam thinks that the guides in GZ will not be able to understand Gracie because of her Changsha dialect. If this is true, this will be the last time she is able to communicate fully until she learns English. This hurts my heart for her. I know she will learn it fast, and she does communicate with hand gestures and bringing us to what she wants....but it's not the same. On the way to the airport, Sam pulled Gracie into the front seat with him (he was sad to say goodbye to her). I was able to video them talking, singing, counting and laughing the whole way to the airport. All the while, you can see Changsha passing through the windshield. It is precious. I also asked Sam to translate lots of phrases on video for me. It is not the same, but I hope to be able to learn enough to make it a little better. I have been trying hard to pick up as much as I can, and I love it when she understands what I'm saying.
On the way to the airport, Gracie said she had to potty. Before I even realized what she had said, the driver had pulled to the side of the interstate and Sam was getting out to take her potty. He said "It's Chinese Way". I think this might be my favorite picture of the trip so far!! She is peeing!!
Leaving Sam was so hard for me that I sobbed through the airport! The stares are always bad, but just try being a blonde with a Chinese baby...sobbing!!! Oh well, gave them something to talk about. This was a totally different experience than our first trip. I was so defensive with our guide in Nanjing...I didn't want anyone else doing anything for Wesleigh. In hind sight, I could have loosened up a little. Still, having one that can talk and play is alot different!
Here are a couple of pictures from our last day in Changsha:
This is our Gracie! She is wearing the sleeve to the trash can!!! She is crazy!!
Being so gentle with our new friend Clara. It is so awesome to see this side of her!
With one of the bellboys. She has charmed everyone she meets. They all adore her...even though she can be ugly sometimes!!
We are now in Guangzhou, and very happy to be on the second part of our journey. I will post about our flight and our first day here this evening.